Relationships as mirrors
'Emotional intelligence has to do with three main things: our ability to listen, our ability to communicate clearly, and our willingness to take responsibility for our own feelings'.
Richard Rudd
I recently spent time with my shamanic Brothers and Sisters completing the medicine wheel. What a year this medicine journey has been for us all. As with all shamanic work, there are really no words that can elucidate the depth of healing and transformation that takes place for everyone held in this mystical container. Now for a few months of integration before I dive into the shadow course.
“We don't heal in isolation, but in community.”
S Kelley Harrell
We are relational beings
All our experiences and life lessons are learnt within relationships.
Relationships are all based on projection. Through our healing journey, we begin to purify our projections and we begin to see the best in others. At the same time, we master the capacity to be consistently vigilant when it comes to our own shadow projections.
When we are invested in our personal healing we reach a frequency, whereby a beautiful disentanglement occurs in our relationships. We are no longer pulled down into someone else’s projection field but retain our own high frequency no matter what the circumstances.
This is the gift of working with your relationship as a mirror.
This is the topic we explored on Friday’s ceremonial wisdom workshop. Being in a sacred space to deep dive into our shadow frequencies, mirrored to us in our relationships, was deeply insightful and healing for us all.
As always, this work doesn’t take the comfortable path. It may feel easier to keep projecting onto another rather than turning the lens inwards, but this keeps us stuck.
The transformational path is one that uses all discomfort as a catalyst for growth.
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"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, 'Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?' Actually, who are you not to be?"
Marianne Williamson